tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28833215.post115240463663817976..comments2008-10-07T15:55:40.323-05:00Comments on On The Losing Side: This is not surgery related... but I need to ventArmy Wife Extraordinaire *~A.W.E.*~http://www.blogger.com/profile/08970872413763406289noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28833215.post-1152546412814863062006-07-10T10:46:00.000-05:002006-07-10T10:46:00.000-05:00Remind Vicky that men put their BEST foot forward ...Remind Vicky that men put their BEST foot forward when dating ... if he's acting like a pig now ... its only going to go downhill from here. He wont' change ... and I'm with Angel, use it to your advantage .... however, should she really have been talking about that around HIM???hyka's messhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15679613323203792128noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28833215.post-1152504088066969572006-07-09T23:01:00.000-05:002006-07-09T23:01:00.000-05:00UGH... I have to admit I'm a person that doesn't ...UGH... I have to admit I'm a person that doesn't think people change all that much. <BR/><BR/>I'm sad Drew heard Vicky talking about it but you know...<BR/><BR/>I seriously DON'T think you own an apology. Something that is said in the privacy of your own home to your daughter, your hormones messed up or not... It isn't an option or up for apologies in my opinion. <BR/><BR/>I wish I could open Vicky's eyes and show her how fucked up life will be if she continues down the path Drew is taking her. I know I may be overstepping boundaries... but hell... <BR/><BR/>*SIGH*<BR/><BR/>You're a good woman Lin, a very nice and good woman. Even during the worst moment possible you were still really nice about Drew.Blondie...https://www.blogger.com/profile/00636237187491905263noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28833215.post-1152423668748252242006-07-09T00:41:00.000-05:002006-07-09T00:41:00.000-05:00You know, maybe you could use this to your advanta...You know, maybe you could use this to your advantage. Like.."I am so sorry I said that stuff about your family, and I appologize, truely I am sorry, BUT this actually got me thinking a lot on the subject and I think having you here is a stress on my relationship with Vikki, and my mental health. If I didn't have to put up with your bull shit all the time, maybe I wouldn't be so short with every one and diss their families. Sooo get to stepping!"<BR/><BR/>Ok maybe not, but it would be fun to say right? lol<BR/>You really are too nice Lin. I'm sorry you have to put up with this bs.Angelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01836500176680984271noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-28833215.post-1152409010968876942006-07-08T20:36:00.000-05:002006-07-08T20:36:00.000-05:00Umm...IMO, you could always tell Vicky that you do...Umm...IMO, you could always tell Vicky that you don't dislike Drew as a person, but then explain to her those things you just told us, and more if there is more--to help her understand where you're coming from. If you feel you need to apologize for what you said, then that's fine, but I wouldn't sugarcoat anything either. It is what it is, and I think Vicky needs to see that.More than a momhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15272050516369735174noreply@blogger.com